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Sandy Liu | 鋼琴演奏家
- Mar 12, 2020
- 2 min
媽媽:《給自己的證書》
03.6.2019 | Man Man Diary 早幾日得起心肝去整理房間,因為要空個位置出來預備細佬出世訓既BB床仲有大女兒將來要買既兒童床。清理既時候看到自己既證書:碩士證書、大學證書、教師證書、音樂證書⋯⋯ 為什麼就是沒有媽媽證書? 讀書不算易事,可是做媽媽是更難的事,還是一輩子的事。 我覺得媽媽這門學科可以分做以下單元(全部必修) 1.冇覺好訓 當媽之後就沒有熟睡的日子,因為要隨時ready 去留意子女既身體狀況。就算媽媽自己病了工作都不會受影響,因為不知那來的力量你一定要處理子女日常先會安心休息。 2.無條件付出 當懐上寶寶之後,你就要無條件付出你既愛。當孩子大了,要離開你,你還是會當他小孩子一樣,什麼時候找你幫忙你都會儘力幫他解決。 3.兒歌聖手 當媽後手機播得最多是兒歌,歌詞也能朗朗上口。 4.媽媽時尚 當媽後的時尚觸覺徹底改變,即是穿衣要方便快捷為主,手袋也是要留意有什麼新款多功能媽媽袋,走在媽媽界尖端。 5.固體營養學 自從寶寶加固之後就化身營養學專家,要因應寶寶的喜好程度作出不同食物調整,務求寶寶食得健康,訓得舒適,玩得招積
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程衞強先生 | 註冊心理學家
- Feb 15, 2020
- 2 min
管教模式
我們都經常聽到,新一代的孩子,他們在處理逆境的能力,較之前一代的孩子為差。究竟,這是什麼原因呢?父母們可以在日常的管教之中,施行怎麼樣的秘技,提升孩子們的抗逆能力呢? 美國亞利桑那州立大學進行了一項「管教方式」與「控制及表達憤怒及挫敗感,並社交功能」的研究。研究結果顯示,權威式管教(Authoritarian Parenting)下成長的寶寶,他們對憤怒或挫敗感的控制較弱(並有較強的表達指數)、並社交功能較差。相反,開明式管教(Authoritative Parenting)下成長的寶寶,他們有著較佳的社交能力。(Zhou et al., 2004) 什麼是權威式及開明式呢?管教方法之中,有兩個元素:要求(Demanding)及回應(Responsive)。權威式管教的特色,是父母對孩子有著很嚴格的要求、規則,但他們不甚對孩子的情感需要作出回應,親子之間沒有太多的「討論空間」,距離感較遠,孩子的任務就是完成指令,不得質疑。 開明式的管理,存在著高要求及高回應的特色,親子之間存在著討論的空間,孩子明白規則的背後原理,同時父母更會按照孩子的成熟程度,
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